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- The Abandoned Child
- The Angry & Impulsive Child
- The Punitive Parent
- The Detached Protector
- The Healthy Adult
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- Function: Cuts off needs & feelings; detaches from people
- Signs & Symptoms:
Depersonalization, emptiness, boredom, substance abuse, binging,
self-mutilation, psychosomatic complaints
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- Helpless to get needs met or find protection
- Signs & Symptoms: Depressed,
hopeless, needy, frightened, victimized, worthless, unloved, lost,
frantic efforts to avoid abandonment, idealized view of nurturers
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- Function : Punishes the child
for expressing needs and feelings, or for making mistakes
- Signs & Symptoms:
Self-hatred, self-criticism, self-denial, self-mutilation, anger
at self for neediness
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- Function: Acts impulsively to
get needs met or vents feelings in inappropriate ways
- Signs & Symptoms: Intensely
angry, impulsive, demanding, devaluing, “manipulative,” controlling,
abusive, suicidal threats, promiscuity
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- UNSAFE : Physically, sexually,
verbally abusive; threat of explosive anger or violence
- DEPRIVING: Absent or inconsistent
parental nurturing and empathy
- HARSHLY PUNITIVE: Critical,
rejecting
- SUBJUGATING: Suppresses
individual needs & feelings of child
- High emotional intensity & lability
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- Help patient to incorporate the Healthy Adult mode, modeled after the
therapist, to:
- Empathize with and protect the Abandoned Child
- Help the Abandoned Child to give and receive love
- Fight against, and expunge, the Punitive Parent
- Re-channel the Angry & Impulsive Child to express emotions &
needs appropriately; reaffirm
child’s basic rights
- Reassure, and gradually replace, the Detached Protector
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- View as vulnerable child
- Genuinely needy, not greedy
- Therapist has rights too
- Don’t blame when frustrated
- Parallels child development
- Mutual respect & genuineness
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- Bonding and Emotional Regulation
- Schema Mode Change
- Autonomy
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- Bonding with the Patient
- Bypassing the Detached Protector
- Healing the Abandoned Child
- Teaching Affect Regulation
- & Coping Skills
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- Empathize with current problems
- Convey warmth and nurturance
- Ask about previous therapy experiences
- and desirable attributes in a
therapist
- Ask about personal reactions to you as a person
- Outline therapy goals
- Discuss life history, including
childhood (YPI)
- Explain schema modes
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- Label the Detached Protector mode. Help patient to feel Detached
Protector and recognize cues
- Explain development of mode in childhood and empathize with its
adaptive value
- Review pros and cons of detaching in the present, as an adult
- Practice dialogues (two-chair technique) between Detached Protector and
Healthy Adult
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- Ask patient to close eyes and picture Little [Judy] as a child.
"What does she look like? How does she feel right now?“
- Continue with other experiential work described below, depending on
which modes emerge in image. Bring therapist into image as Healthy
Adult to demonstrate adaptive responses to each mode
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- Validation of needs and feelings
- Nurturing, stable base
- Confidence-building through praise
- Reciprocity & self-disclosure
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- Affect Regulation & Distress Tolerance Skills
- Mindfulness Meditation
- Schema Diary
- Flashcards
- Assertiveness Training
- Pleasurable Activities
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- Combating the Punitive Parent
- Rechanneling the Angry
- & Impulsive Child
- Setting Limits
- Handling Crises
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- Educate about universal needs & feelings
- Reattribute childhood rejection to parents’ issues
- Reattribute adult failings to schemas, not self
- Highlight successes and positive qualities
- Fight the Punitive Parent through imagery and dialogues
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- Set limits when abusive or destructive
- Ventilate fully
- Empathize with underlying schemas
- Reality-test : realistic vs.
exaggerated
- Share personal reactions to anger
- Practice appropriate assertion
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- Limit outside contact
(Abandoned Child)
- Limit impulsive, destructive behavior
(Angry & Impulsive
Child)
- Limit absences and breaks
(Detached Protector)
- Contact therapist when suicidal and follow therapist’s instructions
during crises
(Any of the 4 modes)
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- Base on patient safety and therapist’s personal rights (Will patients
be safe? Will therapist resent it?)
- Communicate in personal manner, not punitively or rigidly
- If limits are violated, follow specific steps in applying consequences
(see outline)
- Terminate treatment as a last resort
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- Establish limit that patient must follow therapist’s instructions during
suicidal crises, or therapy will be terminated after crisis
- Increase frequency of contact with patient
- Determine which mode patient is in; initiate strategies appropriate for
the mode
- Assess suicidality at each contact
- Consider other steps, such as consultation, medication, group treatment,
and contacting significant others
- Arrange voluntary hospitalization, if necessary
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- Doesn’t enforce limits; avoids
confrontation; passive
(Subjugation)
- Offers patient too much outside time
(Self-Sacrifice)
- Feels inadequate (Unrelenting
Standards, Failure)
- Becomes angry, resentful
(Overcompensation)
- Encourages termination prematurely
(Avoidance)
- Discourages intense needs & emotions (Avoidance)
- Aloof, rigid, impersonal
(Emotional Inhibition)
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- Developing healthy relationships
- Individuation: Following natural inclinations
- Gradual “Termination”
- Contact after termination
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